I really miss writing. One day Im at peace with everything, the next Im so angry Im pushing everything away from me. I actually began thinking about my first TF & I being physically together in the last year & a half & realized I dont know this person at all anymore from us being teenage kids. Perhaps one of the biggest misconceptions and mistakes I see is how we look at the twin flame surrender stage. Surrendering to your twin flame path is a multistage process. While twin flame telepathy isalways happening (long before you ever physically met) it becomes especially noticeable once you reach the surrender stage. Slowly but surely, youll find your personal power growing exponentially. I honestly felt the same way with my second twin flame too, the entire time. First I have a nde/obe out in the desert, essentially dying right in front of my sisters, then I begin seeing things & hearing things more clearly than ever. What happens during the Twin Flame Surrender? By this time, you understand thatthe surrender stage is not as easy as it looks. That attachment's purpose is to pull the sundered twins into shared orbit so that reunion may happen. More importantly, you no longer feel powerless about your ability to change and improve things. It felt like a divorce letting my first TF go, until I surrendered, then I was at complete peace with it ALL. Instead, there is a release of pressure because you know you have progressed out of the war zone. The energy only grew stronger as our time together grew. Because of the deep bond you both share, it often happens without you two realizing it. . It sticks out like a sore toe because you are not used to feeling so relaxed and chilled out. Needless to say, once you love yourself more, beautiful things (such as a reunion) will eventually fall into place. I was in the same place last year when I just finally got tired of chasing my twin flame. But Im not going to do it publicly like he did me. Sadly, it may have affected your ability to settle on the big things as well. Of course, the first way to go about this is to declutter your space. The twin flame relationship is a very challenging surrender experience. He began giving me too much space. Indeed, twin flame relationships can be so intense that you lose faith in the relationship and yourself. It is a story about unconditional love on her Twin Flame journey as a Divine Feminine. Which was why I couldnt understand why this guy wasnt. It involves you surrender to different aspects of your ascension process, pretty much. No questions asked. The first step is the easy one. I was able to experience not solely the strength and wisdom of the masculine but also the loving and compassionate side. Even ended up homeless. Bottom line I guess I just want to see him again physically to make sure hes experiencing all of this too. Fear feeds chaos and negative thoughts which turn into bad decisions and mismanaged interactions with your twin flame. But a person always wishes they couldve done it the easy way. He had me that freaked out this entire last year. - Dan, Thank you very for the light you have given me. Over the last few years, while the divine feminine energy was rising, the masculine held the space for them. BTW Im fairly certain my ex abuser still stalks me, so I began seeing & realizing things I never did before. You open your self and be willing to participate in the most profound types of healing. A demanding spiritual and emotional experience, the twin flame journey is a constant lesson in unconditional love and surrendering. Find all the information it in this article. Even though I wasnt in union. experienced with anyone for many many years, it reminded me of what I felt for my first TF. Once youve experienced theintense feelings of a twin flame connection it can be hard to move on from it. I mean, its easy to get disheartened whenever your twin flame runner denies their feelings and pushes you away. But he began playing the same games the second time we were together. It seems very profound that you must allow yourself to be ready for something you have no control over. A man who can embrace that part of himself Just take a look at Prince, the singer, for example. This is another universal symptom that everyone will notice. As the twin flame chaser in the relationship, you must've grown tired of pursuing the 'runner.' This stage - also known as surrender - is normal. If you have been obsessing over your twin flame union, you start to chill and just allow it. I felt it was best to move on from his games. It isalways a step in the right direction but that doesnt mean youre going to immediately reach union. No two twin flame journeys are ever exactly the same. This does not mean that ignoring your twin flame is the way forward but intentionally working on your own progress is the path towards ascension and reunion with your mirror soul. Insome cases, this might trigger the runner/chaser phase to reverse and your runner might start chasing. They have yet to figure out whats going on. As a twin flame chaser, youre bound to grow weary of the chase. I see it all very very clearly. Surrender resets your connection to allow the Universe to take over. Im ready to let it go now but him & I need to talk for that to happen. Separated twin flames find that to continue on their journey towards union at a particular point; they have no choice but to surrender. I guess I was nuts too. Again (I always say this so I dont alarm anyway) theresno set roadmap for the twin flame journey. I radiate unconditional love energy to my twin flame in every moment. I just wanted more & he refused me. Ive ALWAYS been about what I sense from people, the energy has to be there or I wont explore it at all. I will give you a reading to help you along your journey. Yet I know he is. I feel like he has some major trust issues if hes going that far. In some ways, its the best thing we can do to help them too. Let your union will look after itself. Surrender is the state of acceptance of the situation, whatever it is. Thinking the only thing left is physical union. Not only have you removed stress from your 3D self but your higher 5D self knows that youve taken a step in the right direction and youll be working with amuch higher vibration to help further you onward. I was correct, but it wasnt my 31 year TF who contacted me, it was this long lost guy from 2019 that I really did my best not to think about & he was upset about one of my Quora posts & ripped me hard for it. I have, until this week, I started one again because Im receiving so much healing, so many downloads that I cant sleep. I did with him. And as your twin flame relationship journey continues, the Divine pours them with unconditional love. Focus on yourself. I contacted him twice to buy things. I know he felt me thinking about him, which I tried not to do at all. Raychel Ria Agramon, RN (PH & US), MPM
After all, you build more clarity along the way. Its honestly mind-blowing. Im sure he gets that Im sure hes scared to death of losing me in this lifetime if I dont get more healthy. To get to where I am today. Thissometimes leads to doubt on your journey. You no longer care what your twin flame thinks about your hobbies or pastimes. Note: I knowexactly how painful a separation phase can feel and Im not trying to detract from that at all. We had an instant connection that I hadnt I felt Id learned all I was meant to with him. No Im not, am I just supposed to believe well magically magnetize each other? Twin Flame Feminine Surrender. Then it dawned on me who it was. They began having vivid goals and downloads extra incessantly or they merely felt intuitively, in such a powerful way that is hard to understand and clarify. Then that he deserved someone younger. A good thing about twin chaser surrender is that you get to focus on yourself more. 0707 Twin Flame Number - Time For Conversation And, Twin Flame Number 7 - Journey Towards Ascension, Angel Number 1013 Spiritual Meaning - Twin Flame, Twin Flames Have No Choice But To Surrender, What Are The 3 Main Signs of The Twin Flame Surrender Stage, What Are The 3 Main Twin Flame Surrender Symptoms, How To Surrender To The Twin Flame Connection, twin flames find that to continue on their journey, Twin flames hold in their hearts and souls, Mirror Soul Meaning | Twin Flames Stages And Signs, Twin Flame Eye Contact Is a Powerful Connection The 10 Signs. During the height of your runner-chaser dynamic, you might have placed all decisions by the wayside. The more people grow in consciousness, the lighter the energies become on Earth, and the quicker evolution takes place. By doing so, you end up developing the characteristics of a spiritual person: More importantly, your spiritual growth will make you realize that you can love your twin flame unconditionally even if they keep on running away from you. The second time I came back to him I was ready to let go of this person Id been assuming was my twin flame for 29 years just to see if what I was feeling was real. Ive been running from him since we separated in November 2019. fully trust the divine timing + unfolding of the twin flame connection.
We have been planting food and flowers, recreating new energy within our home, and space for us to grow. The process of surrender is a wonderful but challenging one for twin flames, more so perhaps than for anyone else. I feel unconditional love flowing through every cell of my being. You know you have reached a point of no return, and you understand there is no going backward into playing out old emotions and behaviors. You know youve surrendered yourself fully once youve focused on the things that make you happy. Maybe thats my masculinity talking I DO confront people & things in my life if Im confused about them. But that worked perfectly because I didnt want to be in the same town as him, I didnt want to be living where I was either. I never had to worry about my tf of 31 years getting on my Quora posts & leaving a negative comment. You have found your strength again and learned that negativity only pops up from your own weaknesses and ego. This put a third person in between our budding relationship who wasnt physically there or physically available. It lasted from August to November & we both walked away from each other without a word. The path to your twin flame union is full of pitfalls. Yet Im now telling myself its not real. That upset me. Its almost at all times a gradual process that you just might not even notice occurring. Once we detach from your twin flame we move away from the runner and chaser phase and towards realgenuine healing. You can feel that you are no longer under the strain of your own ego or even outdated patterns and behaviors. A significant part of any journey is that of surrender, and the twin flame journey is no different. Self-doubt is part and parcel of the human experience. Its about surrendering yourself away from the ego and from focusing entirely on your twin. One guy that asked me out was younger than me too, he was someone my daughter brought over as a date, he ended up hitting on me. During chaser surrender, you resign to the fact that your twin flame has gone (at least temporarily.). Letting go of control means letting go of the idea that you are the one in charge of the grander scheme of things. Then afterwards it grew worse. An important one. If youre thinking all the exhausting work has been already carried out at this point, you may be stunned. I have still have an autoimmune disease. We separated twice. None of them appealed to me. If you do that to me, Ill walk. Now my head hurts 24-7. I was done with games. You may have a time when you really feel a lot love and attraction in the direction of your twin flame. The bliss of endless unconditional love from your twin flame and the collective will give you wings and be the sky through which youll fly. After all, Purpose can guide life decisions, influence behavior, shape goals, offer a sense of direction, and create meaning., Contrary to popular beliefs, pursuing your lifes purpose is not a selfish or self-serving journey. I actually did reach a type of surrender a week or two ago. Yes its affected my stress level because Im exhausted, which affects my autoimmune disease. Th Continue Reading 270 10 23 Lawrence C. The only difference is that youre not obsessed with reuniting with them at least for the time being. It means. You know in your heart that its going to happen soon. So Im going to try and help you understand what the stage is, when it can (or should) happen and how you can use all of this to bring you and your twin closer to union. Until I told him to stop. A weird, new way to figure out what to do next is to get advice from the Psychic Love Robot. The connection is too strong for them to be comfortable. If you are surrendered but your twin flame is still running, this will continue until they stop running. You deserve the time to pamper yourself and restore your energy. I assumed we were getting close again to union or contact. The chilled vibe the runner feels from the chaser after they pull back makes all the difference in how long the surrender process takes to initiate and complete. This is perfectly normal and will pass quickly. Something I learned recently is that the "surrender" stage is not something that we force to happen. Dont compare yourself (or your twin) to what you read in other twin flame stories. This part is going to look different for everyone but a good way to start is tofocus on your goals. It took him a few months to get me to go out with him, to finally meet him in person. But it is also very important during this time, to remember that these symptoms will pass, and you will begin to feel better again. Though you may experience frustration, pain, fatigue or emotional overwhelm as youre processing karma and shadows as part of your twin flame growth process, you and your twin will work your way through those stages.